love...and quotes

i guess this is venting. still i wanted to share it with you. let me know what you think...if you agree...if you disagree

I've read quotes that say love is finding someone to get lost in. I've read others where the response to the first quote is that they are lost and looking to someone to find themselves in.

My response to both of theses is...not me. I am sometimes lost and on those days I am looking for someone willing to share my journey while I find myself. I am not looking for someone to find me.

I sometimes know who and where and what I am. On those days I am looking for someone to share their completeness with me. I am not looking for someone to complete me.

And on the days when I want to get lost, I want someone to get lost in while they get lost in me…really we are getting lost together...getting lost in the moment of togetherness and the emotions that the moment brings. But the point is we are doing it with each other, not him for me or me for him but each of us for ourselves as well as each other. The point is...I am not found but looking for someone to get lost in. 

It is not that I am against these quotes that say I need somebody to find me, complete me or get lost in. i am saying I don't need that and don't want to need that. i also don't want that. I don’t need or want someone to do for me what I can and should do for myself. Rather, I want someone who needs me by their side because they love me. I want someone who wants me to share their journey as they share mine …as equals…together…with love. 

i'm jus sayin...